Today’s article is a little bit different from the rest. This motivational topic that I am writing is not only based on me, but it is written based on pretty much every person that goes through 20-30 age. That’s why 20-30 is not a fun age. Indeed, this world is temporary. Wealth, worries, happiness, sorrow, and everything are temporary. The purpose of writing this is to motivate people who think life has nothing good to offer. Life is beautiful once you enjoy being just YOURSELF.
As I entered into the world of adulthood, I experienced some of the things I’d never imagined I will experience. These things taught me to grow, learn, and appreciate. I understand being mentally and physically frustrated in your 20s because we think we can conquer the world and we do not know HOW. Things will get out of your hands once you reach 20, as a human brain is so confused about what to do in life.
I’ve met many people who do not even know what they want to be. They do not have a vision of how they would like to see themselves after the 50s or 60s. If we talk about university students, many of them don’t even know why they have chosen that degree program. If you ask them, their answer would be like ‘my father wanted me to do this’, or ‘my mother got the same degree’ and in many cases ‘I don’t KNOW’. Seriously? this is your life you should know what you’re choosing for yourself.
If you are one of those people, who knows what exactly they’re going to be in life and are determined to be, then consider yourself very lucky. These kinds of people are great, but oftentimes they do not like being a failure. For those of you, who think failure is a bad label then please think again. Because failure is what helps you get up after you fall. Failure is positive. Learn to observe, accept, and improve your mistakes.
In our 20s, we want to do something with our lives and that ‘something’ leaves us miserable, depressed, lonely, and frustrated. That’s why many of the researchers advised on ‘try to have a vision of your future-self’. If you’ve got a vision then work hard to get there ignore all the negative circumstances. This is not a fun age, okay? What if your parents have lots of money and property, it doesn’t matter you will be thinking of making something on your own.
We struggle with ourselves during our 20-24, and in that little 4-years period of time.
“I think your 20s are the hardest part of life. I mean, everyone goes on about how hard it is to be a teenager, but actually I think it’s tougher to be in your 20s because you’re expected to be a grownup and expected to earn your own living and be successful and I think you feel like a kid still.” ~NIGEL COL
“Surround yourself with people who are only going to lift you higher.” ~Oprah Winfrey
Once you are done with your degree program at the age of 24. You are most likely to get worried about getting a perfect job that fits your ambition and helps you grow financially. Again, looking for a job is not an easy task. What you need to do is be confident, never ever lose hope, never give up. It’s often disappointing if you can not find a job but never think life is useless or your efforts are going in the opposite direction. Life is full of Ups and Downs, be brave enough to accept these challenges, wake up, dress up and tell yourself ‘I CAN DO IT’.
Now listen to me very carefully, the age factor does not matter in the journey of success. You can be successful at 40, 50, or even 70. It’s just psychic when people say ‘you are 28, and jobless! shame’ No. These are negative vibes, you have to ignore these kinds of compliments. Let them say whatever they want, just make sure to ignore rather than giving them the attention they want.
“Don’t waste your time with explanations: people only hear what they want to hear.” ~Paulo Coelho
Whatever you do people have always something negative to say. They are never satisfied with your performance even if you are trying your best at keeping them happy. Forget about others, focus on yourself first. Life is beautiful once you start focusing on yourself. Life is meaningful once you start loving, giving, appreciating, believing in yourself. Work hard to get what you want. Let your results speak for you.
This article is just a telling that life may sometimes bring you down, its a test of your faith. I understand it’s not easy to tackle with negative people, but you have to do it for the sake of your success. Once you are successful these negative people will praise you, and that’s the joy of success. ~Thank you